Oct 182017

“Tucked inside the hills and valleys of that wooded fairytale island was a different way of life, and at night, the trees whispered words from the fairy godmothers, enticing me to stay.

Our journey brought me into dark spaces through the wilderness that surround me, but I was held and protected by the council of women I joined there. About 20 of us gathered at a beautiful farm, sharing food and dreams and the desire for connecting to something more meaningful than what most of us found at home in our busy lives. As powerful dream symbols reverberated among us throughout the weekend, I was reminded that our humanity is found in community, in reciprocity, and in remembering that we are not alone. The grief of our separateness was healed through our mutual witnessing, and in our willingness to receive as much as we tend to give.

My time away sung my soul back to life, and I was amazed with my changing reflection in the mirror each night. Stress, anxiety, and the need for constant doing melted away, leaving nothing but beauty in its place.

As I continue to integrate what was discovered on that island into my city life, I’m graced with the imprint that remains. Burning away the fallacy of not enoughness, distractions from my inner life, and inadequate substitutions for what is real and true, I discovered that my longing for connection will meet me every time, at the doorway of my willingness to hold another in return.” – by Kristen Roderick

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A writer, artist and tender of dreams, Toko-pa has been interviewed by CNN News & BBC Radio and her writing has appeared in publications around the world. Thanks to Skype, she works with dreamers internationally in her Private Dreamwork practice, based on Salt Spring Island in Canada. You can find Toko-pa on Facebook or sign up for her mailing list to receive news about upcoming events.

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  4 Responses to “2017 Women’s Retreat in Photos”

  1. It looks like a beautiful gathering, and a wonderful space! It’s so great to share ourselves with our fellow sisters like this, and feel connected and inspirited!

  2. Oh my gosh! Her words and the photo of her with Orbs at her heart. How de-light-full!
    All the photos speak of love, light, joy, peace, harmony, community, health & happiness! Thankyou for sharing. Xx

  3. Mmmmmmm…..
    next year……

  4. The images alone are so beautiful. One day I hope to be able to be part of such a wonderful gathering.

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